8 RULES FOR ENJOYING A THREESOME – M/F/M

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Threesomes  ménage à trois , swinging ): they’re not just for special occasions or your Internet search history anymore. Having a “three-way,” as the hairy swingers of yore probably called it, is now just another standard box (absolutely no pun intended) to check off the average sexual bucket list.
Threesomes are becoming mainstream and not the taboo that it was once thought. people usually associate threesomes with Woodstock and hippies while smoking weed and other forms of drugs. Its been seen as something dirty and unsafe and practised by low social economic hippie types.
This could not be further from the truth. My experience with threesomes of the past 20 years and I have grown to learn, is that older couples have a maturity and stability in their own relationship that allows them to enjoys threesomes better than younger couples.
I get told all the time  ” Imagine what we know now and if we had those younger bodies !!!”.  Yes unfortunately that may be true, but younger couples have issue around jealousies and insecurities.
They are just not equip like a more mature couple that know each other and realise life is too short
Often women associated with having sex with two or more men are considered or viewed as a ” Slut ” or ” whore ” if she practices in such activities. However of the women that I have met in my life, and when it happens in the privacy of your own home, those labels can conflict with how memorable the experience was.
Often women need to absorb what had just happen, and deal with the inner conflict. However ladies, let me assure you, your not alone, and the women that have accepted that threesomes is a natural sexual act between three consenting people, it can enhance ones sex life.

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Your girlfriend, wife might not even need much convincing however she will need to too feel safe and secured in the third party. There are some simple rules i suggest you follow;

Test the Waters

Trying to figure out if she’d is open to a third wheel, male not female !,Bring it up in casual conversation using a pop culture reference and gauge her reaction;

Often men jump to the case by suggesting you introduce a female. She may not be bi curious, however she may be open to the idea of another male.

Be Brutally Honest

You should be able to tell each other exactly what you’re thinking without fear of judgement, and you both must be totally in agreement that you want this to happen.

The female should not do it for her husband, take one for the team so to speak. This is about her, she is allowed to be greedy, make sure that she knows she will be the centre of attention.

If she does not agree or want to do it, don’t push it, it will end up in tears. maybe start with a simple meet and greet only with your selected third party.

Set Ground Rules 

Not to say you have to plan your threesome down to the move, but to avoid mid-coital conflict and jealousy, hash out what the two of you are up for—and not up for—pre-three.  “A lot of couples don’t feel comfortable with kissing but they feel comfortable with penetration.

Maybe you may wish to say that you want to start with a sensual massage, no penetration, see how things go, and move from their.

make sure you select your third party that will show both of you with respect, she must be attracted to him and then tell the third party your ground rules.

Proceed With Caution

Take it one step at a time, and make sure everyone’s cool with what’s happening. If at any stage someone is not comfortable, everyone should pull back and take a break.

If the first experience is one she prefers to forget, it will never happen again. However if the first experience is a memorable one, then don’t be surprised if she is will to accept or asks for it to happen again

Don’t Ignore Her

One of the most important things for any couple is to focus primarily on their partner. At all times, couples are looking for reassurance from their respective partners that everything is ok.

Its only natural, your are pushing the boundaries and its all new, so be attentive to her needs, just not her desires.

 

Expand Your Horizons

A threesome doesn’t have to transform you into full-on swingers, but it could make you more adventurous. “Playing” with other couples, as the sexually seasoned call it.

The first experience may not even involve penetration or intercourse, but the second time is always more adventurous. I find a lot of couples surprise themselves that they have actually done it , and actually enjoyed it.

Some women go back feeling as though they have done something wrong. But you know that just what we have been brought up to believe

Be Safe

This may go without saying, but you might want to wrap it up with a new partner. After all, you don’t want to contract an STD or anything–that could put a serious crimp in your budding threesome game. Now get out there and become the triple-threat that you’ve always wanted to be.

Make sure condoms are always used

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